My darling Jeff, strong as an ox. A man of many talents. No problem demolishing huge buildings - and yet, a fine art silversmith. My silver box wedding present, a constant and precious reminder of your love. You fought this illness with all your might (and so did we) but it wasn't to be - and now we have to learn to live without you - and your wisdom, sense of humour, support and endless love. Always and forever, Your Patricia